Showing posts with label feelings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label feelings. Show all posts

Agatha Christie's Poirot and the novel/movie Third Girl

   It's no secret that Agatha Christie did not like her popular Poirot character. She even (spoiler!) killed him off in a late 1940s novel.

  And then kept writing about him.  After all, her public loved, and still loves, him.  (And publishers love following proven success with more of the same thing.)

  But this created a problem.  Her 1940s novels were definitely 1940s novel.  When i first read (novel referred to above), i felt a dreamike disconnectedness.  Poirot was still active in the 1960s and early 1970s; a novel written in the 1940s doesn't give the same feel.  Christie also wrote a Miss Marple novel at the same time, but, since she did not kill the character, it's easy to disregard its tagline, Miss Marple's Last Case.

  Third Girl is definitely a 1960s novel.  The girls wore their hair long, loose, and straight, or maybe bouffant; drug culture and nonrealistic art were strong background elements.  i'm unfmailiar with the "stepped from a VanDyck painting" fashion of the young men in the story, but, ok, that's undoubtedly a part of what Christie was seeing in the 1960s.

Third Girl is billed as Agatha Christie’s foray into the swinging sixties. And it is certainly a portrayal of the 1960s, as seen by an older generation who cannot understand why these young people won’t take a bath and get the hair out of their eyes. Taken purely as a mystery novel, however, Third Girl is enormously satisfying, a twisty puzzler that, for all its surface modernity, proves that nothing is more timeless than murder.    from https://deadyesterday.wordpress.com/2020/03/22/third-girl-1966-by-agatha-christie/

   In the Suchet film, numerous changes are made to the story. For a list, see here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_Girl#Adaptations_for_television  The film is gorgeous.  i actually like a few of the changes , such as a murder victim in the novel is NOT murdered. There also seems to be better closure with the criminals's story.  The movie, as is the entire series, is well done.

  However, the filmmakers moved the setting back to the 1930s. In itself, that solves the problem presented by that novel from the late 40s, the one that killed off the character.

  But overall, the timeshift isn't a problem.  The side effect of Norma's changed hairstyle, a chic period pouf instead of stringy unwashed hair, is disconcerting. And while Miss Lemon and Dr. Stillingfleet added greatly to the novel, the time change may not have made their absence necessary.  i missed especially the fiery doctor, who appears all too seldom..

 

Holiday article from the Indiana Resource Center for Autism, and a Max update

  As usual, Max is looking forward to Christmas this year.  Hopefully MyGuy and i can  prep ourselves mentally to put up our living room tree - tt means so much to Max, but the most initiative he'll take in getting it up is to wish us "Merry Christmas" out of the blue.

  However, he has two small trees up in his room.  One is a new, 4' prelit one, which he is enjoying.

  It seems in a sense especially important to keep this tradition in this year of universally lowered expectations.

The IRCA has prepared their usual article

of tips to help us help our children on the spectrum cope with the upcoming holidays.  https://www.iidc.indiana.edu/irca/articles/making-the-most-of-the-holidays-for-your-family-and-your-son-daughter.html

  Here's a short quote listing some items to be sure to mention:

Words on Wednesday: Current Reading

  My sister is clearing out books again, a never-ending job.  She loves reading as do i.
  i don't know if these are all of her Robin Jones Gunn books.  i know she's still got a couple of Sisterchicks  titles of mine somewhere, so maybe there are more of these.
  Something she said about these books got to me.

BOOM: You get a trophy! And you get a trophy!


Hi, I'm Boom. I was born between 1982 and 1997, which makes me a millennial. (Yes, that's right. Even by the most generously late definitions, there are no millennials who are teenagers anymore.) And I have been given a participation trophy.

How We See Our Elders

  Max is about a year old here.   He is very intent on something; with Papaw, it's MOVING; with Grammy, he's been distracted by the camera.
  In neither case is he particularly attending to the adoring people who are supporting him.  
  Of course, this only happens with little kids.
  Or does it?
     
This post is a collection of my Christmas Poem Series from the Christmas season of 2013-2014, with links to each poem in the series.  Some individual posts

FC: A Conversation

This is a written "conversation" Max and i had about his first Saved by Typing experience.  i can't promise my handwriting was legible, or that i framed the questions as well as i should've,but this is a copy of our exchange.
Here, i  wrote the italicized words after he had answered.

Honey Sweetie

  Now that i'm "a certain age," walking with a cane, suddenly everyone seems to want to call me "honey" or "sweetie."
  It's hard to not resent this.
  Those are terms of AFFECTION, for friends & family whom you love.
  These people calling me this are strangers, usually in a service position.
  You think i'm a sweet little old lady?  Maybe someday.  Just because i don't want to bother with hair color and have bad knees doesn't mean you can take liberties with me.
  When i was a sexy young thing, men i didn't know would do this.  That was kinda creepy, though they seemed respectful enough in other ways.  i hope this doesn't happen so much in today's climate.
  Maybe it's a way of trying to be friendly to someone perceived as weaker.  Max gets this a lot too, and it makes him hopping mad.
  So if you want to address a stranger this way, JUST DON'T.

The Autism Society's Holiday Catalog

  When Max was preschool age, we attended monthly meetings of the Autism Society.  Good times.  It's great to be with friends who understand what you're going through, though it may have been stressful for the hosts of our group, with 20some autistic preschoolers running around their house!
  Times changed, and meetings got difficult to attend, but i still sort of keep up with the larger group.  A recent email announced something new for them:
The Autism Society of America is excited to introduce our first Holiday Catalog Online Store that will provide a wonderful listing of holiday gifts. The catalog will include:

Bloglove: Sharing from a fellow blogger

Leigh Merryday is an award-winning blogger.  She is a career educator, and a fellow autism mom.  Today i received a great post from her in my inbox, and you may wish to read it too.     The Autism Parent's 7 Keys to Sanity and Success