i share this to give you a feel for working with this wonder-full, communication-impaired young man with autism, as well as inevitably a bit of my own limitations.
|The"Desk to Last a Lifetime,"|
when Max and MyGuy had nearly finished constructing it
We began with two hours of "Keep it or get rid it?" about every single item on his dresser, piled a foot high in places. (MyGuy and i are not ones to do the purge & ask questions later thing.)
Well, back up. First i had to determine that Max was willing to do the project now. There have been other good times for me that were not good times for him.
So anyway we got on with sorting the stuff on the desk. Some of the "get rid of" stuff is things i've been looking for, & will go in the scrapbook or to his teacher for schoolwork. Or maybe enrichment here. i found the instructions for a mini digital camera he was given several Christmases ago. Maybe the camera will surface too & we can look at the photos he took. (But he sure had fun shooting.)
That took a couple hours. Very boring.
We took everything off, polished the top, vacuumed the available carpet, moved the dresser, vacuumed again the additional available carpet, then began the process again with the stuff on the bookcase headboard. There wasn't so much, so that didn't take so long.
At that point we called Dad/MyGuy to help with the bed. Moving, more vacuuming, reminders of why moving furniture is bad for the marriage, replacing stuff.
i'd measured wrong. Yes, the bed goes where i thought. Yes, the dresser does indeed fit in the niche under the window. But the shelves don't fit between the bed & the window, so they'll have to stay where they are. But that won't be the problem i'd thought either. They can slide along the wall they're on, or not, as Max prefers, as long as we remove the boxes on the floor that extend past the shelves.
But the shelves must wait for later. Now it's time for MyGuy and Max to go to the grocery, then we'll reconvene as a family for lunch and library. Today i think we'll also take the tree down.
Saturday routine has kicked in.